"I have been reading some of your entries, and the first question that comes to mind
 is; What makes you so qualified to make these judgements/analyses? I know, you
 repeat yourself and talk about not living for yourself and living for others, and not
 caring what others think, but it seems that you contradict yourself. The SteVen I
 see from afar and the StePHen from the site seem like 2 different people. The March
 24th entry made me laugh. Do you pretend to be someone else when you write your
 entries? Do you take your own advice? Just wondering."
 -Leery
 
 heather,
 well first i must say thank you for not only writing me but also reading
 modesty.
 i am in no way qualified to write modesty. i am a failure @ relationships
 and the march 24 entry was more from people learning from my mistakes than
 anything else.
 i am human. i have made  horrible mistakes in my life. i dont consider myself a good person, if anywhere on modesty i have made
 that assumption please tell me a...