are some people that we're "destined" to meet, but it's up to us to choose to make
the effort with. there does not always need to be polar opposites in life.
sometimes, it's a little three dimensional. i like to think that i was meant to
meet my girlfriend. looking back upon how we met, it's really hard to think
otherwise. but then we made an effort to stick together for over a year with long
distance. now, she lives just down the road from me. it's pretty amazing. choice
and fate. it's a possibility."
I can see your point R, for those who believe in the Talmud they can remember the story of Isaac and Rebecca, it was fate for her to dip water for the camel and the manservant. For her to be there at the right place at the right time and be in the right blood line was more than clearly the hand of YWAH.